There are some unique features between sex addiction and heart-involved affairs. Linda discusses helpful suggestions for betrayed spouses who are reeling from their partner’s “Affair Fog” and rejection.
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He told a friend of mine I’d be “OK.” That depends on your definition of “OK.”
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Pure Sex Radio Interview: Jonathan Dougherty interviews Linda about her book and discusses ways for former betrayers to rebuild their partners’ trust.
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Ever wonder how a decent, loving human being can turn into the kind of person who would coldly harm his/her spouse, upend their children’s lives, walk away, and turn away from God? A number of formerly unfaithful spouses have validated the following progression from faithful to unfaithful and rejecting. Read the following to see if perhaps you are heading down the same path, before it’s too late:
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Often when a person is unfaithful his or her heart completely turns away from the marital partner. In doing so, the straying spouse seems to become a completely different person, much to the shock of the betrayed spouse. Read this post for some possible explanations and insights to explain the puzzling phenomenon of what I call “The Clueless Alien.”
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Here is an entry dedicated to betrayed spouses who are struggling with pain through the holidays. Triggers, painful reminders need not ruin Christmas forever. There is hope for your future.
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TIPS FOR REPAIR. Wonder how to avoid mistakes in the process of healing from Infidelity? And to know what to do instead? In this video class Linda shares a few suggestions for both the betrayer and the betrayed, to help them better navigate their journey.
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Here I share a unique angle on how God helps us forgive those who’ve wounded us.
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PODCAST: Interview on Relationship Cafe on helping couples recover from infidelity.
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I wrote this poem for folks who’ve experienced the trauma of abandonment by an unfaithful spouse. It is a spiritual allegory meant to encourage the betrayed on their journey.
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This podcast highlights Linda’s tips for helping spouses heal from an affair. The interviewer is therapist Shane Birkel, LMFT, Host of the Couples Therapist Couch podcast.
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In this workshop Linda explains how the shock of intimate betrayal can cause PTSD symptoms in betrayed spouses, which often goes undiagnosed.
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